Can a gaggle journey ever be romantic? Barry Hoy heads to Jordan along with his associate to search out out whether or not a small group journey with Intrepid can carry {couples} nearer.
From sleeping below the celebs within the Wadi Rum to candlelit walks in Petra, each landmark and panorama in Jordan seems like a love letter to travellers.
I not too long ago took a visit with Intrepid to this enchanting nation with my associate. Whereas Teraj and I have been excited to go to Jordan, we additionally had doubts about group journey as a pair. On trip, we like to attach with one another and a gaggle situation didn’t sound like the best setting for a pair in search of that sort of expertise.
Nevertheless, our time with Intrepid modified that notion. It confirmed us that group journey is usually a romantic and LGBTQ-friendly journey for {couples}. Weaving collectively love, journey and sudden connections, our journey by Jordan was simply what we wanted. We found a rustic crammed with magnificence and historical past, and our shared moments deepened our bond.
Travelling as an LGBTQ couple in Jordan
Certainly one of our preliminary issues was how we might be acquired in Jordan because it’s nonetheless thought of a conservative nation with restricted LGBTQ protections. Nevertheless, our fears have been rapidly dispelled as we found a surprisingly welcoming and inclusive atmosphere. Our fellow travellers, a various group from world wide, embraced our presence with out hesitation.
Our Intrepid information, Mohammad, assured us of Jordan’s dedication to offering a secure atmosphere for all travellers and actively demonstrated this all through our journey. ‘People are people,’ he instructed us. ‘Jordanians are open-minded and everyone seems to be welcome in Jordan, wherever they’re from, no matter their background, historical past, faith [is].’
Having an knowledgeable native like Mohammad, who welcomed us with open arms, allowed us to delve deeper into Jordan’s tradition and historical past. Mohammad’s insights and hospitality made us really feel like we have been exploring with a pal.

Whereas our expertise was usually optimistic, Jordan remains to be a conservative nation, and public shows of affection for all {couples} ought to be averted to make sure you’re being respectful of the native customs. Being discreet and thoughtful goes a good distance in the direction of fostering a optimistic expertise for everybody. As Teraj and I journey world wide, we be sure that we all the time discover a stability between being ourselves and being conscious of the native tradition.
Travelling as a pair with a gaggle
Our group had six different fellow travellers, making a nice-sized group of eight. There have been 4 single girls travellers, one other couple and myself and Teraj.
On our first night time, we have been in Amman and visited a neighborhood restaurant serving conventional Jordanian meals. Attending to know everybody over a family-style meal was the proper icebreaker and the easiest way to kick off our travels. The range of the group and our shared love of journey made the journey particular.


The sense of camaraderie with fellow travellers added a component of neighborhood and connection we may by no means have anticipated. There’s all the time the fear that you simply’ll be caught with a gaggle that isn’t concerned about socialising with these outdoors their speedy social gathering, however fortunately, that was removed from our expertise.
Teraj and I made pals from the USA, South Africa and Australia. These new-found relationships added one thing further to our couple’s journey to Jordan. On our last night time of the journey, we had free time to do no matter we wished, however the group opted to remain collectively for our final supper.
Tailored couple actions in Jordan
Our Intrepid journey had so many actions that allowed Teraj and I to attach.
The culinary spotlight of our journey was the category with Chef Wafaa at The Jordanian Kitchen in Amman. Teraj and I really like cooking collectively again dwelling in New York, so this was an actual deal with for us. I really like maqlubeh, however this was my first time making it from scratch. Chef Wafaa made certain all of us engaged and helped all through the method.
Petra was one among my favorite locations in Jordan. Don’t miss the night time tour. Strolling by the candlelit Siq to the Treasury was nothing in need of enchanting. It was so romantic, and I nonetheless keep in mind the chills I felt from the second we first got here as much as the Treasury – a big, elaborate tomb minimize right into a rock face. Teraj and I appreciated having an entire further day in Petra all to ourselves. We explored different buildings and tombs. We trekked to the far facet of the town to go to a monastery that was much more spectacular than the Treasury.
We additionally went tenting within the Wadi Rum. A number of the world’s favorite motion pictures – Dune, The Martian and Aladdin – have been filmed right here. Gazing on the stars from our tent’s porch, we have been reminded of the vastness of the universe and the small, treasured moments we now have with our family members on this lifetime. This tranquil desert is among the most unbelievable locations for stargazing and the backdrop for an expertise you’ll always remember witnessing along with your vital different.
Barry travelled as a visitor of Intrepid on the Premium Jordan journey. Comply with his adventures on Instagram at @asianmapleleaf.
